when you love someone , and when you claim you love someone , all you wanted was only to make them happy every minute . you will never do things that would cause them to be unhappy or unwilling . knowing that , what you are doing all along dosent please the person , & if you truly love her , you should change for her . if you say ' thats me , i cant change it ' you are absoultely wrong . there is nothing you cant change , its only if you want to change . so , seeing your love one unhappy with your doings , and yet you still insist on doing , is that love ? & forcing her to do things she doesnt want . saying you love the person quite alot , but are you wiling to change ? would you even give it a try ? there are many things one could do for a happy relationship . isnt it ?